I’m lucky to have such a loving and supportive friend. We’ve seen each other at our worst and our best. Even overseas she’s able to guide me out of the forest. A few weeks ago I told her about the heartache and emotions I was going through. What she responded that day really struck a chord with me.
I’ve done a bit of editing to her words, but the idea is still there.
Her words were beautiful. This was her response:
“I’m not denying that you fell for [E] at first sight, but I feel that people in general will also cherish relationships more if you know your time with them is shorter. I’m sure by now you’ve learned that life will be filled with greetings and partings- You’ll say farewell but it’s never good bye. Somewhere down the road you’ll meet her again and if not, you can always cherish that short moment you had with her. Treasure those fond memories!
I think we meet people for a reason. Even though you and her might or might not work out, you’ve learned one thing about yourself:
You’re capable of loving someone again. You’re not broken.
You might still be wandering but at least your heart is able to let a new person into your life again. I think you should continue finding that “someone” you’re meant to be with. I’m not saying you should go around sleeping with people, but if she doesn’t work out just remember you are capable of falling in love again. It’s like how you once loved [M], you’ll find someone new and your feelings for the next person will be even stronger because now you know what you want. You know what you’re seeking.
So Tyson, you’re not broken. Don’t let yourself hit rock bottom again. I won’t let you.”
